We’ve all had those dreams – the audacious, seemingly impossible goals that set our souls on fire. Yet, as we gaze at the dizzying heights before us, self-doubt creeps in. “Is this really possible for me?” In those moments, we face a choice: let the dream wither, or commit to the marathon required to manifest our vision.
Emelina Calder, a seasoned entrepreneur and manifestation guide, emphasizes the importance of this inquiry: “Ask yourself, is this goal or ambition led by my need for external validation or approval? Or is it my inner soul’s yearning and my deep self-expression?”
When our goals arise from a place of authentic alignment, we tap into an inexhaustible well of motivation and resilience. Each step, no matter how challenging, becomes an act of self-love and personal empowerment.
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The Power of Authentic Alignment
Before embarking on any ambitious quest, we must examine our motivations. Are these goals born from our innermost yearnings for growth and self-expression? Or are we chasing external validation, societal expectations, or someone else’s definition of success?
Emelina Calder, a seasoned entrepreneur and manifestation guide, emphasizes the importance of this inquiry: “Ask yourself, is this goal or ambition led by my need for external validation or approval? Or is it my inner soul’s yearning and my deep self-expression?”
When our goals arise from a place of authentic alignment, we tap into an inexhaustible well of motivation and resilience. Each step, no matter how challenging, becomes an act of self-love and personal empowerment.
Becoming the Person Who Achieves Your Dreams
Once we’ve clarified our “why,” the real work begins – becoming the person capable of realizing our vision. As Bri Seeley, The Entrepreneur Coach, shares, “You have to first become the person who has the thing before the thing comes into our external world.”
This identity shift requires conscious effort and commitment. We must embody the mindset, habits, and values of our future selves, even before external circumstances reflect that reality.
Emelina suggests immersing ourselves in our desired state through deliberate actions: “If you want to feel levels of extreme wealth, it’s accessible for under $200 to have a feeling of it, even. Things like clients who want to manifest relationships – when I lived in LA, I went ring shopping.”
By saturating our environment with the sights, sounds, and experiences of our dreams, we accelerate the process of becoming.
Embracing Patience and Divine Timing
As we undergo this profound transformation, impatience can become a formidable foe. We may find ourselves fixated on the gap between our current reality and our desired future, breeding frustration and self-doubt.
Yet, Emelina reminds us, “I don’t know that I have another way of getting around it. Big, hairy, audacious goals are marathoning goals.” Patience, then, becomes a vital ally, allowing us to savor the journey rather than obsessing over the destination.
Bri echoes this sentiment: “I feel like if we’re constantly focused on the gap, that’s where that impatience happens. That’s where we’re not enjoying the journey, enjoying the act of running, in the pursuit of the marathon.”
By releasing our attachment to specific timelines and trusting in divine timing, we open ourselves to the magic of co-creation with the universe, allowing our dreams to unfold in ways beyond our wildest imaginings.
Embracing Your Delicious Delusions
As we traverse this path of transformation, we may encounter skeptics who label our ambitions as “delusional” or “unrealistic.” In these moments, we must firmly reject such projections, for they stem from limitations that need not be our own.
“If being crazy is the opposite of conforming, call me crazy and let’s just get that out of the way,” Emelina declares. “Who said we have to be mediocre, reasonable, and conformist?”
Bri affirms this sentiment, reminding us, “If someone’s handing you a big steaming pile of shit, you’re not going to take it. The projection of delusion, or unattainable or unachievable or unrealistic or any of that stuff – cool, that’s true for them. Why the fuck would you buy into that bullshit?”
By unapologetically owning our “delusions” and refusing to compromise our visions, we open the doorway for others to dream boldly as well.
Embracing the Marathon
As you embark on your journey towards your most audacious goals, remember – this is a marathon, not a sprint. Celebrate each small victory, each incremental step that brings you closer to your vision.
“Committing to regularly publishing content optimized for conversions is a marathon, not a sprint,” Bri advises. “But intentionally tailoring videos to attract and engage those most likely to buy what you sell will pay dividends over time as you build authority and trust.”
Emelina echoes this wisdom: “I don’t try to take off the whole pie. I don’t put myself in the stress and pressure of trying to build a multimillion-dollar business. I say, what is the next right step today?”
By focusing on the present moment and taking consistent, aligned action, you build the momentum that will ultimately propel you towards your dreams.
So, embrace the journey, revel in the deliciousness of your “delusions,” and trust that the universe will meet you halfway, guiding you towards the highest expression of your soul’s desires. For as Emelina reminds us, “Anything that is yours by divine right will be given to you.”
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